Our societal narrative of bisexuality also necessitates self-doubt. Others include watching porn to see how it makes you feel and checking for a groinal response. Compulsions often sound like what I described above: rumination on imagined scenarios, mental reviewing of past interactions, “checking” for attraction. It can attack individuals of any sexual orientation. Like all OCD, it latches onto our closest values and truths, causing us to doubt ourselves. If you have never heard of sexual orientation OCD, it is a common subtype of OCD in which one feels highly distraught and fearful of never knowing their true sexual orientation. I had a few casual, PG flings with boys throughout high school, but it was impossible to settle into them due to the fact that I was constantly wondering, “am I actually attracted to this person?” “Is this what it’s supposed to feel like?” “Could I really be into both?” “Oh god, I hope I’m not into both.” Note: I do not believe gender to be a binary, but I didn’t know that then. I noticed both men and women, hoping one was true and the other wasn’t. But I’m a cheerleader, I’d think, or it’s not like I’m checking anyone out in the locker room… I agonized over what it meant that as a young child, I kissed a girl regularly. I imagined sexual scenarios with both genders to test whether or not I wanted them to happen. Forming hypotheses and then testing them in my head. With this memory came the extreme distress that did not leave me for years: I became a scientist of my sexuality, dissecting attraction. We would reenact scenes we’d seen in the movies our older siblings watched or make up our own scenes. From ages 4-6, my neighborhood best friend and I, a girl, used to kiss. Without warning, the projector in my brain began to play a childhood memory I’d forgotten about. I watched my teammates jump and stunt and tumble, awaiting my turn to get thrown in the air. In 7th grade, close to a decade before knowing OCD was anything besides a preference for cleanliness and organization, I was sitting on the sidelines of the gymnasium for cheerleading practice. This post was originally published at on April 5, 2021. She hasn't taken a fucking hint.Bisexuality & Sexual Orientation OCD: Double Invalidation All the times I overdosed, cried for no reason, yelled over nothing, felt sad and fatigued for hours and hours. And I can't form coherent sentences and my vision gets all blurry. Whenever I overdose I start feeling all shaky and weak and dizzy.and my head starts throbbing.and it gets hard to breathe and it feels like my heart is beating way too fast. Next time I should use my whole fucking inhaler. It can lead to cardiac arrest or even death which is my goal. Why haven't I died already?! Albuterol overdose can be fatal. I can only have 4 puffs of albuterol in 24 hours- I keep taking around 20-50 puffs of it in less than 5-10 minutes.
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Sadly I never died but, she didn't even take me anywhere to get help any of the times I overdosed? And she knew I overdosed? Like this has been going on for months and months. Make us an appointment momĪ lot of times I overdosed on albuterol because.suicidal thoughts. We haven't seen a doctor or dentist in TWO YEARS. She pulled us out because we were being bullied but we never started any other type of school. We're not getting an education since November. But she still doesn't wash our clothes and she actually knows how to-īut like, she just lets our 61 year old grandma who is really weak and has asthma and lives in a hotel do our laundry? When she can literally just take it to the laundry mat and do it herself Yeah our washer is broken but there's a laundry mat not far at all from our house.
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We're 11 and 12 and we haven't learned how to do laundry yet.
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I feel like I'm being neglected by my mom but I don't know. Here are her words, sorry it’s really long She’s an internet friend, so I just don’t know how I can help her over text. My friend is in trouble and I don’t know how to help her, she’s going through so much and she’s only 11.